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Against gay marriage
The issue of the same sex marriages remains an intensely debated and full of controversy. In the United States, the campaigns for and against gay marriage or lesbian ranks is second among funding after the presidential election campaigns.Discussion of same-sex marriage is complex. Must be taken into account many social and legal issues. Both legally and in terms of religion, us to accept others regardless of whether we agree or disagree with their actions and principles. Abuse exists in both directions. Some Christians forget that they ought to love their neighbor as themselves even if he is gay. On the other hand, may end up right infringements believers to give their children sex education consistent with Christian principles.Other issues should be considered: prevention of sexually transmitted diseases, the possible outcomes on mental development of children from families with legitimate same-sex partners, causes lower life expectancy for homosexuals and lesbians, the possible contradiction between the increasing number of marriages between same-sex partners and policies to increase birth rates in western countries. But beyond all this, because we talk about democratic systems, the decision should belong to the majority.
Discrimination comes naturally and easily by the human mind, which is subject to delineate and differentiate.When people believe in certain things and have an opinion about it, they tend to discriminate on such matters. Gay marriage is one example.Marriage for most people is a relationship between two completely opposite sex who love and understand and that is expected to grow and learn from their relationship. So, people find it repugnant to same-sex marriage. Some protesters even went and pissed off at gay funerals, just to ensure that their resentment is demonstrated. It is a very sad and unfortunate situation for homosexuals, but they have no way.
Today, homosexuals are discriminated against just for their sexual orientation. There are many unfortunate incidents when they are beaten and even killed because of their sexuality. Citing reasons such as injury to religious feelings, many people hate gays and gay marriage. People say that homosexuality is a sin and that people who practice it go to hell. It is strange to think that it would be concerned if a person goes to hell instead of heaven after death.
It is a common occurrence for gay marriage not to get proper recognition and homosexuals do not enjoy civil rights. In many countries, gay marriage is considered illegal. Given the love of humanity, such discrimination against same-sex marriages should be stopped but most of people hate them and can not stand to see same-sex marriages.
Concerns about the next generation it is also another reason to oppose same-sex marriages. Since it is not biologically possible for two persons of the same sex to have children of their own, are believed to prevent the continuation of our kind on earth.
Those people who wish to marry same sex, should think of the society and if they do want a quiet life must keep their privacy and do not wish to expose that because they will hurt themselves. People are free to choose, but must take into account and the example that they give to the society.